Some Good Thoughts

There’s only so long you can sit around in your underwear.

Make an effort for people who make an effort for you.

Accept what can be given; anything else is magical thinking.

If you think it might be racist, it is.

Lesser people than you have done harder things than this.

If you choose to love, love fully, honestly, unbegrudgingly; such love will never bring you regret.

which leads us to:

Be brave enough to break your own heart.

In the end, it will be okay.  If it's not okay, it's not the end.